The Founder’s Paradox: Conviction, Crisis & Cold Decisions
A Grove Talk with Renana Ashkenazi & Dave Mor, Co-Founder & CEO at OneLayer
Being a founder isn’t a job title; it’s a series of high-stakes bets you have to live with. In this extremely honest Grove Founder Series session, Renana Ashkenazi sits down with Dave Mor, Co-Founder & CEO of OneLayer, for an unfiltered conversation about conviction, risk, decision-making, and what it truly takes to build.
Spoiler: it’s about moving forward without knowing and having all the answers.
The “Oh-Shit” Moment & The Weight of Deciding
Investors fall in love with the vision, but there’s also a series of bets involved: on an idea, on a team, on a vision that doesn’t exist yet. Then comes the inevitable first “oh-shit” moment – the first (typically painful) reality check. Dave shares why persistence is non-negotiable, and why the real danger isn’t making a bad call, it’s the paralysis of not making one. “You can collect opinions from experts and investors. But in the end – you decide.” The reward? Simple: “When you see the passion, ownership, and relentless energy of OneLayer employees, who act as if failure is not an option, even though they’re not the founders, you know you’ve built something truly powerful.”
Managing the Relationship, Not the Ego
What do you never trade for a check? Conviction. Investors bring the coaching and the perspective, but Dave is clear: alignment doesn’t mean consensus. You need investors who respect that while they provide the map, you’re the one driving the car through the fog.
Moving Fast vs. Moving Right
When a crisis hits, the “old” Dave would sit back and investigate the cause. The “current” Dave gets on a plane first, kills the fire second, and does the autopsy later. “Disconnect emotionally to decide rationally. If you can’t gain perspective, you can’t lead.”
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Culture: Treating Adults Like Adults
Scale is where culture either saves you or breaks you. Dave’s philosophy is simple: Give people the data, the ownership, and the freedom to fail. The result is a culture where a developer fixes a bottleneck in the middle of the night without asking for permission and a sales manager can book a plane to close a deal without getting approval first.
But empowerment alone isn’t enough; it must be paired with clear control mechanisms and visibility to ensure alignment and performance. Growth happens when freedom and responsibility coexist, when culture is intentional from day one, and when founders deliberately design the kind of company that can think, try different things, decide, and act at scale.
Not everyone is born comfortable with that level of freedom. You have to train people to be decisive – but once they get a taste of that agency, they never want to work anywhere else.
Dave’s Hard Truths
- Pick a side. Don’t sit on the fence. Neutrality is a slow death for a startup.
- Stay in motion. Be proactive, or you’ll spend your whole life reacting to things you can’t control.
Identity Check. Ask yourself: “What kind of CEO do I want to be?”